HACKER Q&A
📣 brintha

Why is secure remote server access still so painful for small teams?


I’m curious how others here are handling remote server access today.

In small teams, I keep seeing the same pattern repeat: VPNs that are fragile, SSH access tied to specific networks, firewall rules that nobody wants to touch, and onboarding that’s more painful than it should be.

Most of the time, the need is simple:

check system health

SSH in quickly

maybe open a remote desktop session occasionally

But the tooling around access often feels designed for much larger organizations with dedicated network teams.

We ran into this enough times that we started rethinking our own setup and documenting what actually caused the most friction. I wrote about the underlying problem here, not as a solution pitch but as a reflection on what kept breaking for us:

https://www.lynxtrac.com/why-we-built-lynxtrac-remote-access-without-vpn-headaches

Genuinely interested in hearing:

what works reliably for you? what breaks most often? what you’d never want to manage again?


  👤 speakingmoistly Accepted Answer ✓
Other than for the remote desktop part, Tailscale [1] smooths out a lot of this and has a nice access control scheme. I've been a happy user both at the homelab scale and within bigger orgs.

[1] https://tailscale.com/