This person is junior and I can see it’s taking a toll on them psychologically. I have never been a manager so I don’t know the dynamics of a large organization (fang) but am curious how many of you have experienced something similar or were forced to performance manage a employee when they really didn’t have bad performance but you had to do it anyways due to organizational pressures/circumstances?
I am an IC in tech given the current climate want to protect myself from something like this happening. What’s the best way to do so?
I have made peace with the fact employees are just means to an end. Always have been. Nothing less or nothing more. The power is extremely lopsided in favour of the companies. This makes so many things beyond the control of an individual [1]. Focus on things in your control:
1. Keep learning
2. Be debt free as soon as possible.
3. Invest and build a financial cushion
4. Eat healthy and exercise (I am pretty bad at this but trying to improve)
5. Develop an alternative skill(s) which can you put to use if needed
6. Never burn the bridges, no matter what.
All of the above are easier said than done but I see no sustainable way of coping up.
[1] My current employer (which is a listed company) got acquired by a private equity. I have no idea what will happen but I am relaxed.
Your career is 90% politics and 10% skills. Junior devs enter the field thinking this is meritocracy but it is not. Until they realize the truth, their egos will keep getting hurt.