HACKER Q&A
📣 amichail

Is small talk a form of low-effort speech that should be discouraged?


And if so, how would you discourage it without being rude?


  👤 A_D_E_P_T Accepted Answer ✓
No. Even if it does nothing else, it signals politeness, affability, and adherence to accepted custom. If done well, it also makes your interlocutor more favorably inclined towards you -- in any case, it at least gives you the opportunity to make them more favorably inclined towards you.

Besides, you could make a friend.


👤 LinuxBender
I think NoHello [1] is one such example of speech optimization that may rule out some small talk. As for being rude everyone can be offended by something some people long for it so I stopped concerning myself with their afflictions and I just get things done.

[1] - https://nohello.net/en/


👤 p_ing
I'm curious to know what made you raise such a query.

👤 chistev
It's why I don't want to be a, sales reps. I don't like small talk.

👤 JohnFen
No, small talk serves an important social function.