For me, it's "Solitude and Leadership" by William Deresiewicz: https://theamericanscholar.org/solitude-and-leadership/
"Oblomov". https://www.litres.ru/book/ivan-goncharov/oblomov-oblomov-kn... https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Q1zIasC2Og8
For me it's:
- https://drewdevault.com/2018/07/09/Simple-correct-fast.html
In combination with "Simple Made Easy":
A supposedly fun thing I'll never do again (originally titled 'Shipping out') David Foster Wallace goes on a luxury cruise. There's a PDF version online, but the reading experience doesn't compare to reading it in a book. My copy is tatty by now, still keep going back.