Do wealthy Americans discuss inequality to make themselves feel better?

I guess it depends on the circle of friends/coworkers as well as location. I hardly hear anyone talk about inequality in my circles. Many would be considered top 10%, but most would at least be top 25%.

On the national level, many people in high cost of living areas may be in the top 10%, but may not feel as blessed because of the high cost of living. For example, you may be making $300k per year in a dual income family in SF, but an average house might cost $750k.

In my opinion, if one complains about something multiple times, but does not do anything to fix the issue, then that is hypocrisy.

This is a great question.

So just because your good at gaming the system yourself doesn't preclude understanding its unfair, having empathy towards those less fortunate and being keen to see it changed. I think most people in the fit in this box. Regardless if discussing it is conscious or unconscious signalling, it reflects well on the group.

But that is separate to the fact of whether lip service is damaging or not. And indeed it could be. It can allow you to feel your part of the solution whereas in fact you may be inadvertently perpetuating the problem by being conservative in the face of solutions perceived as radical or detrimental to your group.

As an anecdote, I used to work in a video shop / net cafe. It was in a semi-gentrified area, very low income mixed with high-income bohemian style folks. Our manager used to let neighbourhood kids in to play with the computers and run around. Better than running around on the streets. Of course, they were noisy and disturbed other customers. One complaint was "Look i love what your doing here but honestly I come here to work on the computers and I just cant if its like this". Completely fair yes, but also detrimental.

Its genuinely hard to understand the circumstances of someone in a completely different socio-economic group to you. Sometimes its better to just get out of the way if you cant make the effort. Or, make the effort to understand and then support someone who is driving real change, while realising it may be uncomfortable to you and your group. And with inequality, the solution should by definition feel uncomfortable, after all its your resources that are being redistributed.

Pretty much, given very little or almost rarely does it result since any outcomes. At best there might be some action on the discussing people’s part. But outcomes realized - zero. In a sad way I feel we deserve what we have coming.

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If wealthy people really, I do mean REALLY, took this conversation seriously they would advocate for tax reform, otherwise its simply bullshit posturing.

Things like a graduated income tax with numerous exceptions and trivial capital gains taxes have proven ineffective. On the national level I would instead like to see income taxes replaced by a property tax and a 100% estate tax above $10 million.

> [F]or my friends and colleagues from the 10%, discussing income inequality has become a sort of social signal to show that you yourself are too smart to be poor, but you still feel bad for all the unfortunate people that were left behind by capitalism.

> Does discussing inequality so much become a self fulfilling prophecy for the low-income strata? Does it simply benefit the current winners of the status quo?

I suppose it depends on whether the discussion stops at the "Oh Noes" level, or if it continues to discussing how the 10% (or the 1%, for that matter) gets co-opted by the 0.01%, and on to various proposed remedies[0], and then on to more explicitly political activities such as support (in whatever form) for specific policies, organizations, and candidates.

[0] Campaign finance reform is probably the ur-remedy that enables most others.