Anyone else's spouse treat them like a slave?

Title pretty much says it. I spend all my time at a job I hate or working on chores/projects at home, pay all the bills, and do more than 50% of the chores.i also spend at least 36 hours a week watching the kid (which means I can't do many of the projects or dome of the chores). I get very little time to pursue hobbies, but my wife gets several hours per week to go do stuff and spends the equivalent of our mortgage payment each month on hobbies.