Wanted to hear your opinions on anonymous vs non-anonymous feedback for personal development!
In my general opinion, negative feedback is very helpful for personal development. Most people will also have some resentment towards the bearer of negative feedback.
It's not my job to make my manager a better person if it means I miss out on a cushy pay bump next review.
"I had a hard time with XYZ" Is better.
"When a and b was difficult, but not a and c, that was fine." Is even better.
However, "I would have abc instead of xyz" isn't great." Depending on who it came from might be a wild goose chase.
So, overall, if the human can take it thought full, actionable, and accurate advice always wins out in technical spheres.
Personal development is similar, but it takes a strong person to take feedback of any kind. Mostly because there's so much subjectivity involved. Which, of course, washes away when 3 out of 4 people in a company of 400 all say the same thing.
I would say the quality of the feedback is more important.
* Any comment at all is probably far too much effort, as confirmed by comments when behavior was criticized, especially if the substance of that comment isn’t already stated.
* Down vote is just the right amount of effort, like Goldilocks.
* Up votes are also a tremendous effort like fighting a crushing gravity.
* Up votes suddenly become easier with social validation. The more popular an idea appears, up votes per minute, the more irresistible the up vote button becomes like a black hole gravity well.