What community do you recommend to post "complicated questions"?
For example, I just posted that:
https://stackoverflow.com/questions/63399940/how-to-tell-ssh-to-setuid-after-pam-and-not-before-to-remap-users
and I am being told this is not "SO material".
All my latest SO questions have been in the same "vein", more architecture and design questions than strictly code question.
I'd like a friendly community that can share experience and have healthy debates over tricky questions.
1. Working it out for yourself
2. Reading a book
3. Asking a friend
[EDIT] I'm not really joking, I started programming in the 80s as a kid reading stuff like this as the only book
http://www.classiccmp.org/cini/pdf/Commodore/VIC-20%20User's...
Then when I started working mid-90s there were cases and cases of books about Oracle products, Reporting tools, Unix, Windows, and C and Visual Basic programming all around the office! Getting to know the people that could answer questions in real life or on the phone became pretty useful!
In general I’ve found there are specific discord/slack/whatever servers that are more open to discussion, I don’t have one for networking stuff though.
If you aren't, there are many places on the web where you can hire a programmer who can do that for you, most notably Elance, Freelancer, Guru, Upwork, and vWorker -- but there are others as well.
Also, see this post if you want to host your own StackOverflow-like Q&A site:
https://meta.stackexchange.com/questions/2267/are-there-any-...
Also, see this other post:
"Ask HN: We need a better alternative for Q/A than stackoverflow"
https://news.ycombinator.com/item?id=21347079
Anyway, wishing you luck in your endeavors!
Maybe that question would have worked better on https://serverfault.com
for more abstract software questions there is https://softwareengineering.stackexchange.com/
Otherwise, forums and other communities specific to technologies. E.g. a linux/unix admin group for your SSH/PAM question.
I actually had a brief conversation on an open Telegram group about a software issue recently, and the developer replied within seconds. I suspect that Telegram isn't commonly used in this way, though.