I'm really interested in any advice on how to play this role, and especially how to be effective at it during remote work. Thanks.
'Getting to Yes' and 'Exactly What to Say' could be helpful books when you have to negotiate with your superiors or peers.
Are there any of the individual parts of the job you have done in the past you feel weak at, or strong at?
Paul Graham on The Maker's Schedule > http://www.paulgraham.com/makersschedule.html